In terms of housekeeping, on a scale of 1 to 10 are you a “CLEAN” or a “DIRTY”? Likewise, are you a “NEAT” or a “SLOPPY”? What is your spouse? Often clean and neat are equated with moral superiority. As desirable as these qualities might be, morality comes into play when differences cause tension between you and neither is willing to budge (or your home would not pass muster even with a blind health inspector).